Nex-5 is $200 more, no significant extra feature worth having in my opinion. Get a Nex-3 body only, and save the extra money for the adapters, batteries, cards, etc.
Some say the Nex-5 has better build quality, but I didn't find that in my case. I handled both cameras at my local BestBuy store before buying on Ebay.
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